When couples reach out to us, a lot of them mention the same film before we’ve said a word: Harley and James. It isn’t always because they’re getting married at the same venue. It’s because of how that film feels: two people who clearly adore each other, a groom who can really dance, and a golden hour that looks almost too good to be real.

Here’s the story behind it, and what made it work.

3,667 days in the making

Harley and James had a small wedding years earlier. Harley was serving in the military and deployed, so the big celebration had to wait. They waited 3,667 days, just over ten years, to have the full ceremony and reception they wanted at Sparrow Creek Ranch.

By then they had built a whole life together, including their kids. That’s what makes this film different. It isn’t the start of a story. It’s a family celebrating everything they’d already been through.

Getting ready, with a little help

James got ready with help from their two boys. Harley’s bridesmaids saw her in her dress for the first time and pulled her into a group hug.

A first touch, with letters

Before the ceremony, Harley and James stood on either side of a doorway. They held hands around the frame and read letters they’d written to each other, without seeing each other until the aisle.

Personalized vows and a family sand ceremony

At the altar, James read personalized vows to Harley, with his groomsmen standing behind him. Then their kids joined them for a sand ceremony, which was fitting for a wedding that was really about the whole family.

Golden hour in the open grass

After the ceremony, we took Harley and James out to the open grass at Sparrow Creek Ranch as the sun dropped low. That warm, soft light is what most couples remember about this film.

Golden hour is the last stretch of daylight before sunset, when the sun is low and the light turns warm and soft. It’s flattering on everyone, and it gives a wedding film that glow you can’t fake in the edit.

How to get golden hour footage like this

• Check the sunset time for your date. Golden hour starts roughly an hour before sunset, and it moves a lot between summer and fall.
• Block 20 to 30 minutes for portraits. Step away from the reception and let your videographer have you to yourselves.
• Pick an open spot facing the sun. At Sparrow Creek, the open grass gives a clean horizon and nothing to block the light.
• Don’t over-plan it. Our best golden hour moments come from couples who relax, laugh and just enjoy each other.

And then James started dancing

The other thing couples always bring up is the dancing. In the reception hall, James swung Harley up and held her overhead in a handstand mid-dance. He swing danced, he spun, and he didn’t slow down until the sparkler send-off.

Watch Harley and James’s wedding film

Planning a wedding at Sparrow Creek Ranch or anywhere in Texas? See our wedding videography pricing, read about another military love story we filmed in Texas, or watch more films on our Love Stories page.

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